I often see myself as somewhat content with my life the way things are, but of course it’s hard to think of anything else when there are real issues to be discussed.
Still, I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.
Yes, we’re all pelted with problems.
Honestly, it shouldn’t even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be.
Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream.
They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks… or can they?
Maybe you can.
If that describes you, then there are 10 questions you should ask yourself if you want to be sure about the quality and legacy of your life.
Here they are:
1. What Do I Really Want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.
Find something that you are good at that can help realize that small step towards improvement.
Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.
2. Should I Really Change?
Today’s generation has taken another level of redefining ‘self’, or at least that’s what the kids are saying.
Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity.
So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
If history has taught us one thing, it’s that the life that we have gone through will come back around.
3. What’s The Bright Side To All Of This?
With so much happening around us, there seems to be no room to consider that light at the end of the tunnel.
We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny.
And if it’s a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!
4. Am I Comfortable With What I’m Doing?
There’s always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot.
It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do.
Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.
5. Have I Done Enough For Myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do?
Discontent in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you’ll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.
6. Am I Happy With Where I Am Today?
You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch!
Your children will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life.
7. Am I A Worthy Friend?
So maybe I don’t have an answer to that, but that doesn’t mean you can’t try to evaluate it the best you can.
He that hath a friend, must show himself friendly.
Maybe the change you desire in life will come when you reach out to others and be friendly to them.
They will open doors for you.
8. How Much Could I Have?
I suppose in this case there is no such thing as having too much or too little. It’s all a matter of context.
But it’s more on how badly you really need it.
I’d like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is how much are you willing to work for it?
9. What Motivates Me?
What motivates you? It’s an answer you have to find out for yourself.
There are so many things that can make everyone happy. Choosing one out of the many is the hardest part.
It’s not like you can’t have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that’s it.
Just try it piece by piece.
10. What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick?
You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but thinking that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey.
Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.